Exploring new experiences in our intimate relationships can be daunting, even for those who are comfortable with their desires. As Astra’s Dominant partner, I’m deeply aware of my responsibility to ensure she feels safe and supported throughout any new endeavors we undertake together. While it’s true that overwhelming one’s submissive can be a concern, I believe that when done thoughtfully, it can also be a powerful catalyst for growth and connection.
Recently, Astra and I embarked on an experience that pushed the boundaries of what we’d tried before. It was simple yet profound experience, and its impact has lingered long after the event itself. The catalyst for this shift was our magic wand, an item we’ve both grown fond of over time. While I’ve traditionally used it to tease and edge her, we discovered a new (to us) dimension to its use.
As our scene unfolded, Astra was bound to the bed, her wrists secured by black rope that stretched as she strained in place. Her thighs perfectly spread, bound to each side of the bed, unable to be closed, so I can see how deliciously we she was. Her body was helpless to my touch, and I reveled in the knowledge that she could do nothing to escape or change the course of events. I applied the magic wand to Astra’s clit and began edging her, gradually increasing the intensity before bringing her to orgasm. But instead of stopping there, I decided to take things further. I kept the vibrator on her clit, teasing out multiple orgasms in quick succession. The look in Astra’s eyes was a mixture of terror and exhilaration as she struggled to process what was happening.
In the aftermath of the scene, we had our usual debriefing conversation, discussing how we felt about what had transpired. Astra described it as one of the most profound experiences we’d shared together, referring to it as a “spiritual experience.” I realized that this small act of repeatedly stimulating her had ignited something deeper within me – a desire to see my
submissive partner fully surrender to pleasure, forgetting about everything else in the universe.
Astra’s willingness to surrender her self control and willpower to me was something truly extraordinary. As her Dominant partner, I’m humbled by the trust she places in me and grateful or the opportunity to push our boundaries together.